7 Signs It’s Time to Talk About Getting Extra Help at Home with Right at Home

Don’t Wait for a Crisis to Start the Conversation

Getting older doesn’t mean giving up independence — but it does mean planning ahead.

In Australia, it can take up to 12 months to access funded Home Care support through the government. That’s why it’s so important to notice the early signs that a loved one may benefit from help at home — and to start the conversation before there’s a fall, burnout, or emergency hospital admission.

These signs don’t mean your loved one is no longer capable — they simply highlight areas where a little support could help them stay safer, more confident, and independent for longer.

Here are 7 early indicators that it’s time to consider extra help at home.

1. They’re Not Recovering as Quickly After Illness or Injury

After a cold, flu, minor fall, or surgery, are they struggling to bounce back like they used to?
Slower recovery can be one of the first signs that they need a bit of help with tasks like cooking, mobility, or showering — even just temporarily.

2. You're Noticing More Forgetfulness

They’ve always been sharp — but now they’re forgetting appointments, repeating questions, or struggling to manage medication.
These early signs of cognitive change might not stop them from living independently yet, but they’re a cue to start monitoring and planning.

3. They Seem to Be Withdrawing

No more community groups, fewer phone calls, or declining invites. Social withdrawal can sneak up quietly — especially in winter — but it often points to physical, emotional, or mental challenges that could be supported.

4. Household Tasks Are Falling Behind

You’ve noticed the dishes pile up, the bed isn’t made, or the garden looks overgrown. It could be a sign that bending, lifting, or managing daily chores is getting harder.

5. Changes in Personal Care or Appearance

They’ve always taken pride in how they look — but lately, you’ve noticed messy clothes, unbrushed hair, or a change in personal hygiene.
These are sensitive signs to bring up, but important ones that signal a need for gentle support.

6. You’re Feeling Increasingly Concerned — Even if You Can’t Pinpoint Why

Sometimes your gut tells you what your eyes don’t. If you’re constantly worrying about your loved one’s wellbeing, it may be time to explore what’s changed and how support could help.

7. They’ve Mentioned Frustration or Loneliness — Even Casually

If you’ve heard things like, “I can’t do that anymore,” or “It gets lonely sometimes,” it’s worth pausing. These are often soft cries for help that go unheard until a crisis happens.

Why Early Is Better

With long waitlists to access government-funded care through My Aged Care, starting the process early ensures that when help is truly needed, it’s already available.

At Right at Home, we can assist with both immediate private care and guidance on applying for Home Care Packages.

We’re here to make that first conversation feel less daunting and more empowering — for you and your loved one.

Contact us today to book a free in-home consultation.
Let’s talk about how we can support your family with care that feels right — and right at home.

Right at Home Australia is a leading provider of quality in-home care. Our mission is to improve the quality of life for those we serve, ensuring the Right Care, Right at Home™.  We support people living with complex and post-operative care needs, dementia and cognitive decline, seniors, and adults living with a disability, including NDIS participants. Our tailored services help clients to remain safe and independent in their homes. We are an Approved Provider under the Aged Care Act, meaning we can provide quality support at home under a government-funded home care package. We also offer private pay arrangements for those who do not have government funding or who wish to pay privately for top-up care. Right at Home is all about you. We are available 24/7, so contact your local office today. You can also call our national number on 1300 363 802. 

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