As our family members age, it becomes important to adjust our family get-togethers for their changing needs. So whether your family celebrates Hanukkah, Christmas, or another summer celebration, consider the health of your loved ones.
Your traditions, special recipes, and heirloom decorations may have been handed down from some of the very family members who are now the beloved elderly at your celebration.
A loved one with hearing loss
People with hearing problems can feel isolated in a crowded room. Reduce background noise as much as possible, save the loud music for later. Remind guests to face your loved one and speak slowly and clearly and encourage your loved one to use their hearing aids.
A loved one with vision loss
People with age-related eye problems need good lighting. Dining by candlelight might mean they can’t see what they’re eating. Dim lighting also raises their risk of falling. Keep empty boxes and new toys off the floor.
A loved one with dementia
When an elderly family member is living with Alzheimer’s disease or a related disorder, holiday plans usually need to be modified. If the family member hosting the gathering is the primary caregiver, they may already have their hands full. A simplified celebration could be in order, or maybe it’s time for other family members to take on some of the shopping, decorating and cooking. It’s important to help family members with dementia remain part of the celebration.
During the holiday season, try to maintain your loved one’s routine as much as possible keeping to similar bedtimes, mealtimes, medications and exercise.
If possible, enable your loved one to help with baking, decorating and wrapping gifts.
Your loved one may still have memories of holidays past. Encourage them to share their thoughts. Before the gathering (in person or online), go through a photo album to remind your loved one about people who they will see.
Ask guests to wear name tags.
Set aside a space in the home where your loved one can rest if they become overstimulated.
Avoid decorations that could be hazardous, such as candles, or greenery with berries that might be mistaken for food.
Talk to guests before the gathering. Explain any changes in your elderly relative’s mind or body. For children, use simple terms and reassurance.
Special considerations for 2020
The holidays will look different this year due to the pandemic, so the adjustments above might be only the beginning. Parades are called off, and we won’t be seeing crowded sales or Santa photos at department stores and shopping centres. Many places of worship plan to hold remote or socially distanced services.
Families are making tough decisions. Public health experts say indoor gatherings can spread COVID-19. Should out-of-town family chance plane travel? What about university students coming home without time for the recommended quarantine period? How can they protect the most vulnerable family members? Lucky for Australians, summer weather should allow for outdoor gatherings.
And take heart – some experts say there could be a silver lining, as scaled-back celebrations mean less stress. For people facing economic uncertainty, cutting back on holiday spending will be welcome. And families who have lost a loved one during the pandemic may wish to focus on reflecting as a family on their loved one’s life.
Home care for the holidays
Professional in-home care can be a real holiday gift for the elderly who need care, as well as for family caregivers. Professional caregivers can provide hygiene care (bathing, dressing, grooming, help going to the toilet), housekeeping and laundry, meal preparation, healthcare reminders, transportation to medical appointments or gatherings, and memory care for clients with dementia. Professional caregivers can help your older lover ones with online shopping, gift wrapping and decorating, all the while being mindful of social distancing and other sanitary precautions. A professional caregiver can be with your loved one to allow you time for baking, shopping, decorating, or, this year, setting up the big virtual celebration.
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