Driving is more than just a mode of transportation; it is a symbol of independence that many cherish. However, as we age, it becomes crucial to recognise when driving may no longer be safe. The decision to stop driving is significant and depends on a person’s ability rather than their age. 

Typical changes caused by ageing often affect our driving abilities. For instance, changes in depth perception are very normal as we age, many people can lose the flexibility that allows them to turn their head quickly to check the road, and others may find their reaction time slowing down. 

So, how do you or your loved one know when it is time to stop driving? Here are some more tips from your trusted home care provider.

Thinking About Your Own Driving Abilities

For some older Australians, the realisation that it is time to hang up the keys comes from self-awareness of their diminishing driving skills. Recognising signs like difficulty seeing at night can lead to voluntary decisions to limit driving. Many older adults choose to start making changes by avoiding nighttime driving or busy highways. They might also limit themselves to familiar routes or shorter trips and using alternatives for longer distances.

Self-regulation is a smart way to stay safe while keeping some independence and a feeling of control. It also makes it easier for older adults to get used to alternate ways of getting around.

Starting the Conversation with an Older Loved One

Talking to an older loved one about reducing or stopping their driving can be very challenging and should be planned with care. If someone were to tell you that you should stop driving, your natural reaction would likely be that you are losing your independence, and you might become defensive. You might also worry about becoming dependent on others. After decades of driving, the conversation will probably not sit well.

A gentle way to start this dialogue with an older loved one is by asking reflective questions that encourage self-assessment. You might ask them, “Would you feel comfortable driving your grandchild”? Such questions can help older adults realize the potential risks without feeling pressured. Other questions can focus on the car rather than the person. Ask questions about dents or scratches not by asking, “How did you do that”? but rather, “How did that happen”? or even “Can I help you arrange to get that fixed”?

Exploring Alternative Transportation Options

Bear in mind that you do want to encourage your older loved one to keep getting out of the house. Losing the ability to drive can have disastrous effects on the social connections and activities we all need for good mental health.

Fortunately, giving up driving does not mean giving up mobility. Older Australians have various alternatives to driving themselves:

• Public transportation. Buses and trains can be excellent options for older adults, especially in cities with robust transit systems.
• Community services. Many communities offer shuttle services specifically for older adults, which can be a convenient and safe way to get around.
• Car services and taxis. Services like Uber offer convenient, door-to-door service at many locations.
• Family and friends. They are often more than willing to help by providing rides, especially for important medical appointments or events.
• Walking. If health permits and distances are manageable, walking is both practical and healthy.

Transitions caused by ageing are often challenging but limiting or stopping driving altogether doesn’t have to be a negative. Instead, this transition can bring new opportunities to explore different and potentially rewarding modes of transport. With the right approach and support, older adults can navigate this change smoothly, maintaining their independence and safety.

Right at Home’s tailored services help you and your loved ones to maintain independence, and a healthy, fulfilling lifestyle. Our non-medical care model includes services necessary to help clients transition safely including transportation to doctors, allied health, and other personal appointments, running errands, and assisting with grocery shopping. We also have services that ensure social connection and companionship. 

We can delver these services  through a government funded Home Care Package or through Private Pay Support. Contact your local office now to see how Right at Home can support you at home and in the community. 

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Founded in 1995, Right at Home offers in-home companionship and personal care, and assistance to seniors (elderly and aged care), and any adult who needs our care at home including adults living with a disability who want to continue to live independently or age in their home. Right at Home is your local expert for issues related to caring for your loved ones and is dedicated to keeping you informed about home care. With no package management fees, Right at Home allows you to get more care from your Home Care package or budget. 

Right at Home is a 'My Aged Care' government approved, home care provider for levels 1 – 4 and offers flexible support at home care services such as nursing care, after hospital care, post-operative care, respite care, dementia and Alzheimer's care. Right at Home also offers assistance with daily living and personal care such as grooming, hygiene, transport, shopping, meal prep, domestic services and social support, so your loved one can enjoy a more independent, vibrant life. Our nurses and caregivers are screened, highly trained, and insured prior to entering your home so you can trust us with the caregiving while you focus on your loved one. 

To find out more, please give us a call on 1300 363 802 or visit our website. 

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